⚠ If you were just scammed

Here's exactly what to do right now.

We'll walk you through every step — reporting, protecting yourself, and recovering. Before you send anything: pause and call a trusted family member first. Victims who talk to someone they trust before sending money are 95% less likely to lose funds.

Start Here → First 24 Hours

This page exists because someone in our family was targeted — drained of her savings by scammers who exploited her grief. We built this so the next family has somewhere to go.

$4.9B Lost by older adults in 2024
FBI IC3
147,127 Complaints filed in 2024
Up 46% from 2023
1 in 24 Cases ever reported
Most go unrecorded — NCOA

First 24 hours — do these now

Time matters. Follow these steps in order. If you are doing this for a family member, walk through it together.

  1. Call your bank immediately

    This is the most time-sensitive step. Every hour matters for reversing transactions.

    When someone answers, say these words:

    "My name is [your name]. I need to report that I've been the victim of a scam. Please freeze my account immediately and flag all recent transactions I did not authorize."

    Then ask:

    • What is my fraud case number?
    • Can you reverse any recent transactions to [the scammer]?
    • How do I protect my other accounts and cards?
    • Do I need to come into a branch?

    Write down: The representative's name, employee ID, case number, and the exact time you called. You will need this for disputes.

  2. Report to the FBI — IC3

    The FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center is the primary federal database for fraud. Your report helps investigators identify patterns and recover funds.

    Open FBI IC3 →
  3. Report to the FTC

    The FTC shares reports with over 3,000 law enforcement agencies nationwide. Takes 5 minutes. Your report directly funds consumer protection efforts.

    Open FTC ReportFraud →
  4. Report to the CFPB (if a bank was involved)

    File this if the scam involved a bank, wire transfer, credit card, or any financial product. The CFPB can compel your bank to respond within 15 days.

    Select "Bank account or service" or "Credit card" depending on how you paid. Describe that you were defrauded and your bank has not reversed the charge. The CFPB will forward the complaint directly to your bank and require a response.

  5. Report to your state Attorney General

    State AGs can investigate and prosecute scammers operating locally. Many run consumer protection programs specifically for elder fraud.

  6. Create your incident record

    A written record protects you. You'll need it for bank disputes, insurance claims, and follow-up with law enforcement.

    Your data never leaves your browser. We generate a PDF you keep — nothing is sent to any server.

Active Scam Database

Scams targeting older adults — documented, categorized, and kept current. Each entry includes red flags so you can recognize it before it's too late.

16 documented scams 2 community confirmations
Grandparent Scam 2 scams
Grandparent Scam

Grandparent Scam — 'I'm in jail, don't tell Mom'

A caller impersonates a grandchild in crisis — arrested, in a car accident, or hospitalized abroad — and begs for immediate wire or gift card payment before a family member can be consulted. A second caller posing as a lawyer or bail bondsman reinforces the urgency.

Grandparent Scam

Grandparent Scam — Courier Picks Up Cash at Your Door

An evolution of the grandparent scam where after the victim agrees to pay, a local accomplice arrives at their home to collect cash, gift cards, or even jewelry — often within hours of the initial call.

Fake Medicare / Government 2 scams
Fake Medicare / Government

Fake Medicare Card Replacement Call

Callers claim Medicare is issuing new cards and needs to verify the recipient's Medicare number, Social Security number, and bank account to process the replacement — there is no new card, and Medicare will never call to ask for this information.

Fake Medicare / Government

Free Genetic Testing / Back Brace Medicare Scam

A booth at a health fair, pharmacy, or senior center offers 'free' genetic cancer screening or back braces covered by Medicare — but the real goal is harvesting Medicare numbers to bill for durable medical equipment or lab tests never ordered by a doctor.

Tech Support Scam 2 scams
Tech Support Scam

Microsoft/Windows Pop-Up Virus Warning

A browser pop-up mimics a Microsoft or Windows security alert, fills the screen, and plays an alarm sound warning that the computer is infected — the number displayed connects to scammers in India or Eastern Europe who charge hundreds to 'fix' problems that don't exist.

Tech Support Scam

Phantom Hacker Scam — Three-Stage Bank Drain

A three-call scam where a fake tech support agent finds 'hacking,' a fake bank fraud department confirms it, and a fake federal agent instructs the victim to move savings to a 'safe government account' — which is the scammer's account.

Investment Fraud 2 scams
Investment Fraud

Pig Butchering — Fake Cryptocurrency Investment Platform

A romantic connection made on social media or by 'wrong number' text slowly builds trust over weeks, then introduces a cryptocurrency investment platform where victims watch fake gains accumulate — until they try to withdraw and find they must pay 'taxes' or 'fees' that vanish too.

Investment Fraud

Annuity Churning by Rogue Financial Advisors

An 'advisor' convinces seniors to repeatedly surrender and repurchase annuities to generate commissions — each surrender triggers heavy penalties for the senior while the agent collects a fresh commission.

Romance Scam 1 scam
Romance Scam

Romance Scam — Military Officer Stationed Overseas

A profile on a dating site or Facebook presents as a widowed U.S. military officer stationed abroad — the relationship deepens quickly, then money requests begin: medical emergencies, shipping fees to send gifts, or plane tickets home that never materialize.

Phone / Robocall 2 scams
Phone / Robocall

IRS Arrest Warrant Robocall

An automated call claims the IRS has filed a lawsuit or arrest warrant and that the recipient will be arrested within hours unless they call back immediately to settle the debt — the IRS does not call about arrest warrants and does not demand immediate payment by phone.

Phone / Robocall

Social Security Suspension Scam

A caller claims your Social Security number has been 'suspended' due to suspicious activity or involvement in a crime, and that you must pay a fine or provide personal information to reactivate it — Social Security numbers cannot be suspended.

Email Phishing 1 scam

Medicare Supplement Insurance Email Phishing

Emails mimicking Aetna, UnitedHealthcare, Humana, or the federal Medicare program prompt seniors to verify coverage or update payment information — clicking the link harvests Medicare numbers, Social Security numbers, and banking details.

Impersonation 3 scams
Impersonation

Gold Courier Scam — 'Your Bank Was Hacked, Buy Gold Now'

Scammers pose as tech support, then a bank fraud department, then a government official — each confirming your accounts have been hacked. You're told to withdraw cash or buy gold to 'protect' it. A courier then arrives at your home to collect it, using a passcode to seem official. The money is gone instantly.

Impersonation

Utility Shut-Off Impersonation

A caller or sometimes an in-person visitor claiming to be from the electric, gas, or water company threatens immediate service shut-off unless a past-due balance is paid within the hour by prepaid card — the number they provide routes to the scammer, not the utility.

Impersonation

Publishers Clearing House Prize Scam

A caller or mailer announces the victim has won a Publishers Clearing House prize and must pay taxes, customs fees, or processing charges upfront to receive winnings — the real PCH never requires payment to claim a prize.

Other 1 scam
Other

Home Repair After Disaster — Contractor Fraud

After a storm, hurricane, or flood, unlicensed contractors canvas neighborhoods offering quick repairs, collect a large deposit, and disappear — or do shoddy work that causes further damage and then demand full payment.

Red flags library

How to recognize a scam in progress — including what to watch for in a parent or loved one who may not see the warning signs themselves.

Universal red flags — any scam, any type
If your parent or loved one says any of these — act now
  • "I can't tell you why, but I need to send money right away."
  • "They said I'll be arrested if I don't pay today."
  • "A person from Microsoft called and said my computer has a virus."
  • "I met someone online and they need money to come visit me."
  • "My grandson called from jail — he needs bail money and doesn't want me to tell anyone."
  • "I won a sweepstakes, but I need to pay taxes first to receive the prize."
  • "They said my Social Security number was used in a crime."
  • "They said I owe back taxes to the IRS and they're sending police."
  • "Medicare called and needs to update my information or they'll cancel my coverage."
  • "I've been investing with a new person online — my account is growing fast." (romance + investment hybrid)
Signs money has already been sent
  • Unexplained gift card purchases at drugstores, grocery stores, or electronics stores
  • Unusual wire transfers from their bank account
  • Withdrawal of large amounts of cash
  • New cryptocurrency accounts or purchases
  • Unfamiliar names or companies on bank statements
  • Defensive or secretive behavior about finances — especially combined with a new "friend" who advised the action

Protect yourself and your family going forward

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One more thing, before you go.

If you were scammed, there’s a good chance you haven’t told anyone. Research consistently finds that about two-thirds of victims stay silent — not because they’re indifferent, but because they’re mortified. That silence is exactly what these organizations count on. They know it. They build it into the script.

Here’s what that silence costs: the FBI estimates only 1 in 24 cases of elder fraud is ever reported. That means for every case investigators can act on, 23 others disappear into shame. Patterns go undetected. Arrest warrants never get issued. The same operation calls the next family on the list. Your report — even a partial one, even if you caught it before sending a dime — is a data point that might be the one that breaks a case open.

You were not outsmarted. You were targeted by people who do this full-time, who train on psychology, and who have refined their scripts over thousands of calls. They win sometimes. That’s not a character flaw — it’s a numbers game they run against everyone.

If you’re carrying the weight of this and need someone to talk to, the AARP Fraud Victim Support Helpline is free, confidential, and staffed by people who understand exactly what you’re going through: 1-877-908-3360.

Frequently asked questions

What should I do immediately after being scammed?

Call your bank first to freeze your account and dispute transactions. Then file with the FBI IC3 (ic3.gov), FTC (reportfraud.ftc.gov), and your state Attorney General. Document everything while it is fresh — dates, phone numbers, what was said, and how you paid.

How much money do seniors lose to scams each year?

The FBI's IC3 recorded $4.885 billion in losses from 147,127 complaints filed by older adults in 2024 — a 46% increase in complaints from 2023. The average loss per older adult victim was $83,000, compared to $19,000 for all ages combined. Only 5% of cases involved losses over $100,000 — but that 5% accounted for 68% of all dollars lost.

Will I get my money back after a scam?

Recovery depends on how you paid. Wire transfers and gift card payments are rarely recovered. Bank fraud reported within hours may be partially reversed — which is why calling your bank immediately matters. Credit card charges can sometimes be disputed. Reporting creates a record that occasionally leads to restitution in larger cases.

What are the most common scams targeting seniors?

Investment fraud ($1.8B in 2024), tech support scams ($1B), and romance scams ($389M) account for the largest losses. The grandparent scam, fake Medicare calls, and IRS impersonation are also extremely common for older adults specifically.

Should I feel ashamed if I was scammed?

No. These are professional criminal operations designed to defeat anyone's defenses — not just seniors. Reporting your experience helps investigators and warns other families. The shame belongs to the people who designed the scheme.